Hot Cold attitude

你知道吗，不冷不热地态度是最伤人的。I don't understand how people can do it, switching between two opposite axis and seem fine about it. I don't understand how people can say one thing yet do the opposite without realizing. When a person are not hot and not cold, everything they do become meaningless, because they are not hot and not cold. There is no point saying about missions and evangelism and connecting when we ourselves have so much reserve. People who are unwilling to share life won't know how to love, because they had never include others in their inner circle. All the shared talk/conversation/time means nothing if it isn't connected in the soul. Sharing happy things or good things are easy, but being friends is not all just about celebrating happiness all the time, that's what an acquaintance do. When things slowly become superficial, it might wither before we realized, that's when people start to part ways.